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Is EMDR Effective for Relationship-Related Anxiety?
EMDR, or Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing, is a therapeutic approach that is steadily gaining attention. Originally...

Hui Wen Tong
Apr 10
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Breaking the Chains of Past Relationships with EMDR
Past relationships can leave deep emotional scars that affect your well-being and future relationships. You may feel like you are still...

Hui Wen Tong
Feb 13
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Love Languages: Enhancing Your Relationship Under Stress
Maintaining a strong relationship can be challenging, especially when life gets stressful. Understanding each other's needs and emotions...

Hui Wen Tong
Jan 9
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From Partner to Roommate: Reviving Intimacy in Your Relationship
Relationships often start with excitement and passion. Over time, however, some couples may find themselves drifting apart, feeling more...

Hui Wen Tong
Sep 12, 2024
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From Heartbreak to Healing: Navigating Post-Trauma Relationship Recovery with Staying Sane 101
Trauma can have far-reaching consequences on a person's emotional well-being and the ability to form and maintain healthy, fulfilling...

Hui Wen Tong
Mar 27, 2024
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Embrace Mindfulness for Improved Mental Health
Mental health plays an essential role in our overall well-being, affecting every aspect of our lives, from personal relationships to...

Hui Wen Tong
Jan 18, 2024
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Healing and Growing Together: Couples' Therapy for Relationship Development
Relationships, while incredibly rewarding, can also be complex and challenging. As couples navigate life together, they may encounter...

Hui Wen Tong
Nov 23, 2023
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What is Love?
Whether it’s a philosophical question or a romantic sentiment, the concept of love has been pondered throughout the ages. It is something...

Hui Wen Tong
Feb 28, 2023
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Exploring the Advantages of Transactional Relationships
Human relationships are complex and multifaceted, and they often involve some degree of transaction. A transactional relationship is one...

Hui Wen Tong
Feb 23, 2023
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Attachment Theory
Attachment theory is a psychological model that describes the nature of emotional bonds between individuals and the ways in which these...

Hui Wen Tong
Feb 1, 2023
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Attachment and its Impact on Sense of Self
"Look at how a kid behaves and you'd know how his/her parents are like." "What an unbelievably rude person! He must be raised in a barn!"...

Hui Wen Tong
May 24, 2021
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Selfless vs. Selfish
Has anyone ever told you that you are too nice? Or that you put others before yourself a little too much? It can be hard to find that...

Hui Wen Tong
Aug 2, 2020
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Being Different Is Not Wrong
Previously, I wrote about unmet universal human needs and one of them is a sense of Self. Accepting and being accepted for who we are is...

Hui Wen Tong
Jun 26, 2020
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Universal Human Needs
Have you ever wondered why babies cry? Crying is a baby's first language to communicate their needs such as: “I’m hungry.” “I’m scared.”...

Hui Wen Tong
Jun 8, 2020
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Being "Present"
This falls under one of my job scope. What does being present mean? I like to define being present as having an open mind, attitude and...

Hui Wen Tong
May 7, 2020
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On Accepting Others
Do we see people for who they really are? Or do we view them though spectacles tinted with our own interpretations and expectations? Do...

Hui Wen Tong
May 7, 2020
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Possible Ways to Re-Know Ourselves
I used the adjective ‘possible’ here to suggest that it is possible but not guaranteed. And as counselling goes, it is only helpful if...

Hui Wen Tong
May 7, 2020
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Who Am I?
Numb. Empty. Alone. Lost. These are the words I often hear from clients struggling with their emotions. They find it hard to put their...

Hui Wen Tong
May 7, 2020
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