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Why Can’t I Relax Even When Nothing Is Wrong? Understanding Hypervigilance
Have you ever had a day when everything seemed perfectly fine, yet you still couldn't relax? Your work is done. The house is quiet. Nobody is asking anything of you. You finally have the time you have been looking forward to all week. But instead of feeling relieved, you feel restless. You check your phone. You think about tomorrow. You wonder whether you have forgotten something important. Perhaps you find yourself becoming irritated by little things that normally wouldn't b

Hui Wen Tong
4 days ago7 min read


High-Functioning Anxiety in Singapore: When You Look Fine but Never Feel Okay
You wake up, get dressed, go to work, reply to messages, meet deadlines and do everything you are supposed to do. From the outside, your life looks relatively put together. You are responsible, dependable and perhaps even successful. People describe you as hardworking, organised or someone who always seems to have everything under control. But inside, it is a different story. Your mind rarely stops. You replay conversations long after they have ended. You worry about disappoi

Hui Wen Tong
Oct 118 min read


How a Therapist for Depression and Anxiety Can Help You
Living with depression or anxiety can feel like holding your breath in a crowded room. You get up, smile when needed, carry out your responsibilities, and keep moving. But it does not go away. There is a weight that lingers under your thoughts, inside your chest, and across your relationships. It is not always dramatic. Sometimes, it is a steady blur or a tiredness that stays, no matter how much you rest. Most people try to figure it out alone. It may feel uncomfortable to as

Hui Wen Tong
Oct 26, 20254 min read


Why Does My Heart Race: Understanding Panic Attacks
Your heart is pounding. You’re not running, you’re not exercising, and yet it feels like your chest is about to explode. You try to take...

Hui Wen Tong
Aug 17, 20256 min read


Breaking Free from Panic Attack Cycles
Panic attacks can show up out of nowhere. One moment, everything feels okay. The next, your chest is tight, your heart is pounding, and...

Hui Wen Tong
Jul 29, 20256 min read


Managing Anxiety Triggers in Social Situations
Anxiety in social situations is common for many people. It often feels like a whirlwind of nerves and worry that strikes just before...

Hui Wen Tong
Jun 8, 20254 min read


Can EMDR Therapy Assist with Anxiety in the Workplace?
Anxiety in the workplace is an issue many people face but often avoid discussing. It can manifest in various ways, impacting both...

Hui Wen Tong
May 20, 20254 min read


Practical Tips to Manage Generalized Anxiety Disorder
Understanding how to manage Generalised Anxiety Disorder (GAD) can make a significant difference in one's quality of life. GAD is a...

Hui Wen Tong
Apr 15, 20254 min read


Is EMDR Effective for Relationship-Related Anxiety?
EMDR, or Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing, is a therapeutic approach that is steadily gaining attention. Originally...

Hui Wen Tong
Apr 10, 20254 min read


EMDR: A Fresh Approach to Easing Everyday Anxiety
Feeling anxious is a common experience for many people. Whether it’s caused by work, relationships, or daily stress, anxiety can affect...

Hui Wen Tong
Dec 1, 20244 min read


Harmonising the Body and Mind: The Power of Polyvagal Practices
Harmonising the body and mind is essential for overall well-being. One powerful way to achieve this is through polyvagal practices....

Hui Wen Tong
Sep 6, 20244 min read


Survival Mode Shutdown: Understanding and Reversing Hypervigilance
Living in a constant state of alert can be exhausting. Hypervigilance keeps you on edge, always ready to react to perceived threats....

Hui Wen Tong
Aug 15, 20244 min read


The Impact of Hypervigilance: Understanding and Overcoming Survival Mode
Hypervigilance, a state of heightened alertness and increased sensitivity to one's surroundings can result in individuals finding...

Hui Wen Tong
Mar 7, 20244 min read


What is Tonic Immobility and Dissociation?
Tonic immobility and dissociation are two complex psychological phenomena that can occur in response to an overwhelming or threatening...

Hui Wen Tong
Feb 1, 20244 min read


Understanding and Overcoming Anxiety: Tools for Regaining Control and Empowerment
Anxiety is a complex and multifaceted emotion that can manifest in a variety of ways, often impacting an individual's mental health,...

Hui Wen Tong
Jan 4, 20244 min read


Managing Anxiety and Depression for Emotional Balance
Anxiety and depression, two of the most prevalent mental health challenges faced by individuals today, often go hand in hand and can...

Hui Wen Tong
Dec 14, 20234 min read


How to Stop Overthinking?
“Show us a technique,” my martial arts Sensei said. I froze. (I felt I should not have, given how long I have been training). “Don’t...

Hui Wen Tong
Nov 9, 20232 min read


How to Stop Self-Sabotaging
In the vernacular of therapy, self-sabotaging means not choosing yourself, or not prioritising your own betterment. In this article, I'll...

Hui Wen Tong
Mar 21, 20232 min read


Fighting Anxiety by Not Fighting It
An anxious brain is healthy and a very protective brain because you might have experienced hurt or some sort of trauma in the past and it...

Hui Wen Tong
Nov 10, 20222 min read


Catastrophizing - A False Sense of Control
“Our mind is not our friend,” half-joked my partner-in-crime one day when we discussed our case study. Our primitive brain is a...

Hui Wen Tong
Aug 28, 20222 min read
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