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Hui Wen Tong
Nov 17, 2023
Coping Mechanisms: How to Effectively Manage Stress and Anxiety
In today's ever-increasingly complex and fast-paced world, stress and anxiety can seem like inevitable byproducts of our modern...
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Hui Wen Tong
Nov 16, 2023
Navigating Mental Health: Your Guide to Therapy in Singapore
In 2022, Singapore recorded 476 suicides, according to a statement by SOS on their website. Of concern is the significant rise in suicide...
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Hui Wen Tong
Nov 9, 2023
How to Stop Overthinking?
“Show us a technique,” my martial arts Sensei said. I froze. (I felt I should not have, given how long I have been training). “Don’t...
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Hui Wen Tong
Nov 7, 2023
What are the differences between Counsellors, Psychologists, and Psychotherapists?
The terms “counsellor”, “therapist”, “psychotherapist”, and “psychologist” do confuse the mental health industry. Some people use the...
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Hui Wen Tong
Jun 15, 2023
What I Learnt From My Rabbits
I have two rascals – Malcolm and Angus. Malcolm is a hypervigilant, highly intelligent, and angry bunny. Angus, by contrast, is a simple...
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Hui Wen Tong
Jun 6, 2023
The Illusion of Emotional Safety: Unmasking Avoidance, Withdrawal, and Aggression
Feeling physically and emotionally safe is a fundamental human need. Physical safety is self-explanatory, while emotional safety refers...
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Hui Wen Tong
Apr 24, 2023
What does Processing Experiences Mean for PTSD Patients?
I am fascinated with how the human brain works, especially when it comes to painful experiences. I read an article today that piqued my...
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Hui Wen Tong
Mar 21, 2023
How to Stop Self-Sabotaging
In the vernacular of therapy, self-sabotaging means not choosing yourself, or not prioritising your own betterment. In this article, I'll...
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Hui Wen Tong
Mar 15, 2023
We are all addicts in one way or another.
Addiction is often viewed as self-destructive behavior, one that is characterized by a loss of control over substance use. However,...
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Hui Wen Tong
Feb 28, 2023
What is Love?
Whether it’s a philosophical question or a romantic sentiment, the concept of love has been pondered throughout the ages. It is something...
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Hui Wen Tong
Feb 23, 2023
Exploring the Advantages of Transactional Relationships
Human relationships are complex and multifaceted, and they often involve some degree of transaction. A transactional relationship is one...
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Hui Wen Tong
Feb 1, 2023
Attachment Theory
Attachment theory is a psychological model that describes the nature of emotional bonds between individuals and the ways in which these...
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Hui Wen Tong
Nov 10, 2022
Fighting Anxiety by Not Fighting It
An anxious brain is healthy and a very protective brain because you might have experienced hurt or some sort of trauma in the past and it...
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Hui Wen Tong
Sep 18, 2022
Being Hard on Yourself
“Why are you so hard on yourself?” That was what my client’s manager asked my client, and that’s how she ended up on the couch – to...
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Hui Wen Tong
Aug 28, 2022
Catastrophizing - A False Sense of Control
“Our mind is not our friend,” half-joked my partner-in-crime one day when we discussed our case study. Our primitive brain is a...
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Hui Wen Tong
Jul 6, 2022
Virtual Confidence versus Confidence in Person
“How is it possible that I struggle to carry a conversation in person when I am so confident talking behind a screen?” This is a common...
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Hui Wen Tong
Jun 21, 2022
How to Communicate Better
One of the top five reasons why people come for therapy is to learn how to express themselves and communicate better. Nowadays, a smoke...
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Nachum Kaplan
Sep 7, 2021
The Trauma of Moral Injury
Trauma takes many forms. Some such as Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) have become common terms in recent years, but one kind of...
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Nachum Kaplan
Jul 15, 2021
Step Outside The Box
Personality tests are a common tool in the Life Coaching industry but I don't use them and here are some of the reasons why. Firstly,...
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Hui Wen Tong
May 24, 2021
Attachment and its Impact on Sense of Self
"Look at how a kid behaves and you'd know how his/her parents are like." "What an unbelievably rude person! He must be raised in a barn!"...
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